Archive for the ‘The Net’ Category

Facebook: Missing A Point

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

picture of Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg

According to sundry articles Facebook started as a dorm room hobby of Mark Zuckerberg, the CEO of Facebook. He stole pictures off of a Harvard web site, broke some other rules and literally said “because they are stupid” when asked why his early users trusted him with their information.

Years later, at age 26, Mark Zuckerberg dismisses those comments to being only 19 years old at the time. Fair enough, I was 19 once too. However, I have also seen rumors in various internet articles that Zuckerberg has made similar comments, recently, in what he thought were private chats.

Even if all of that weren’t true, Facebook has made a habit of changing people’s privacy settings and defaulting those settings to public. At least once a year. Without notice. Without consent. Mark Zuckerberg has repeatedly used the phrase “monetizing information” in reference to the content his users generate on Facebook.

Some web pundits have made the intelligent comment that Facebook’s moves were calculated and the backlash anticipated by Mark Zuckerberg. That it is all part of his plan to “monetize” his user’s lives by incrementally pushing, thereby expanding, the limits of what people will accept from an online company in terms of a company redistributing their information.

This may be true.

However, there is a point that Zuckerberg has missed, does not appreciate enough or is likely gambling that it will not become a problem. Facebook makes money by being able to tell customers that their site has X number of people going to it. People go to Facebook to socialize, that is why it is called a “social network” site. The thing is that people will not socialize unless they feel safe to do so.

Imagine you are at a party. About every ten minuets a fancy audio system beams in on one random person’s conservation and pumps up the volume of what that person is saying, broadcasting it over the speakers in the room, all over the room, out into the parking lot and maybe onto the local news.

Do you think people at that party are going to loosen up and have really good conversations? I don’t.

Mark Zuckerberg claims that Facebook has almost 500,000,000 users with about half of them being active.

They may be there, but that doesn’t mean they are socializing or exchanging information on the site as they would if Zuckerberg respected their boundaries. I know so many people who are keeping their accounts to keep in touch with old friends they found through the site, but these people are weighing what they say on Facebook. As they would at a party where at any moment what they say could be broadcast at high volume all over the room.

Less information to “monetize”.

MySpace used to be the social network “go to” place “everyone” went to. Now, people call it a “ghost town”.

Luckily, there are several projects underway to replace Facebook. One that sounds the most interesting to me is a project call “Diaspora”. “Diaspora” will be made from open source software nobody will own (control) and there will not be a “network” to own (control), so someone like Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg can’t do what he did and is doing.

The students making Diaspora appealed to the IT community for $10K for expenses. They got over $200,000. They have the support, the will and quit possibly being in the right time in the right place. The are aiming for Fall of 2010.

June 06: Facebook Protest

Sunday, May 16th, 2010

Mark Zuckerberg has stated he “doesn’t believe in privacy“. In a letter to Zuckerberg dated April 27, Senators Charles Schumer, Michael Bennet, Mark Begich and Al Franken objected to changes that made a user’s current city, hometown, likes, interests and friends publicly available, where they were previously only seen by friends

snip…

On June 6th we are asking those who disagree with the changes Facebook has made to its “privacy” policies to commit to not logging in or interacting with Facebook in any way.

Invite all of the people on your friends list on Facebook! :)

More information:
http://facebookprotest.com/

Blog, not BCC

Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008

A friend of mine recently got hired to create an adult evening class on email etiquette. Always interested in offering my thoughts, I offered this suggestion for a rule of email ettiquette:

Do not include someone on a BCC list unless you are regularly sending them personal emails and the topic of your BCCed email is something they are DIRECTLY interested in.

Doing otherwise comes off to many people as if you are SPAMMING them. It feels impersonal. It can also be a nuisance to some people. They may not complain because they don’t want to risk damaging their relationship with you.

There are good alternatives.

You can address the email directly to the person. You can add a line at the top explaining that you thought the subject might interest him/her. You can use his/her name in that introductory line. This method has a personal touch. This method will make person will feel as if you are making an effort to stay in touch and be their friend.

If the alternative above is too much work you can set up a blog. Blogs are made for people who regularly want to tell people about what is on their mind. Blogs are free. Blogs are easy. If you can set up and use a web based email account, you will not have any trouble using a blog. Blogs are that easy. Blogs also come with RSS ( Really Simple Syndication ) built in. RSS updates people when a blog they subscribe to is updated. They can choose to see these updates in an RSS reader. They can also get these updates on a web page like their MSN, Google, or MyYahoo account pages. The important point is that with RSS they see updates of your thoughts when they choose to see them, not when you BCC them.

Blogs have the added benefit of making your insights available to the whole world as they will be published on the web. If you want something more private you can get a blog through a free service like LiveJournal.com where you can set who sees and who does not see your posts.

I’m not criticizing anyone with this post. I used to be a bit compulsive with BCC lists myself. Luckily I had some brave and tactful friends educate me to the fact such emails are not always appreciated.

If you are regularly in contact with a person and write on subjects that are of direct interest to them you are fine. If not, one of the two alternatives above will turn what feels like a spam into what feels like a warm gesture to stay in touch and preserve a friendship.