Book Review: “A Guide To Rational Living”

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Dr. Albert Ellis was voted by the American Psychological Association as being the second most influential psychologist of all time.

This book is the first book that Dr. Albert Ellis wrote on Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy ( REBT – later known as “cognitive therapy”). I also think it is one of the best.

REBT is built on the idea that our thoughts cause our emotions. Ellis believed that people can change their emotions by disputing their irrational thoughts with facts and reason. Dr. Ellis believed that behaviors and emotions reinforce thoughts. To make lasting changes Dr. Ellis advocated exercises to change behavior and emotions along with changing irrational beliefs.

In this book Dr. Ellis goes through what he believes are the top 10 irrational ideas that cause most people to experience unpleasant emotions needlessly.

Ellis is not known for being a great writer, but in this book he pulls it together. The tone is direct as well as clear, free of psychobabble, and you never doubt that you are being addressed by one of the great psychological minds of the 20th century.

Dr. Ellis views evolved substantially over the decades and over many editions of this book. To get a modern view of the concepts that Dr. Ellis considered to be the most important I would recommend starting the book at chapter 20, going to the end and then starting from the beginning.

Beware, there are multiple editions of this book. To get the latest edition with the most content make sure you have the 3rd 1975 (August) edition. ISBN 0-87980-042-9. For some reason some book sites list this publishing year as 1997. Perhaps that year just refers to a fresh printing. Regardless, the edition you buy should have 23 chapters. Earlier editions do not.

I consider this book to be one of the most influential books I’ve read in my life.

Books Of 2010

Last year I decided that I wasn’t reading enough. I made it a goal to read at least 12 books in the year 2010. I got off to a great start and then fell behind. Work, work stress and overindulging in the internet. However, I was able to make up the difference and get back on track. I ended up reading 16 books in 2010.

  1. “Skinny Bastard” by Rory Freedman
  2. “Self Made Man” by Norah Vincent
  3. “The China Study” by Dr. T. Colin Campbell
  4. “Old Souls” by Tom Shroder
  5. “Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins Of Modern Sexuality” by Ryan and Jetha
  6. “A Guide To Personal Happiness” by Albert Ellis and Irving Becker
  7. “Why We Love Dogs, Eat Pigs and Wear Cows” by Melanie Joy
  8. “The Handmaid’s Tale” by Margaret Atwood
  9. “How Doctors Think” by Jerome Groopman M.D.
  10. “Green Tea The Secret For A Healthier Life” by Nadine Taylor
  11. “The Green Tea User’s Manual” by Helen Gustafson
  12. “The Year Of The Flood” by Margaret Atwood
  13. “Sun Certified Programmer For Java 6 Study Guide ” by Sierra and Bates
  14. “Eating Animals” by Jonathon Safran Foer
  15. “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr. Robert Glover
  16. “The God Delusion” by Richard Dawkins